Hi allyn, as what everyone said here already, that kind of joke from your father in law is definitely strange and uncalled for.....Originally Posted by allyn
my hubby, father inlaw and brother inlaw went out tonight for a concert then had some drink,butt 2x is not funny its quite painfull.
me and my brother inlaw girl friend was been left behind in the flat and my mother inlaw pick them up to go to back in our flat after their concert and drink....
everyone seemed to be having fun, they are very happy when they arrive in our flat, i guess thats because they already a bit drunk ,,,all of us were laughing from their jokes...
but after a few minutes my father inlaw starting to hit me in the back of my head and kick me in the butt....
every one is laugh including my husband,,,it seemed to be a joke to them so i ignore it and laugh with them. Then after a couple of minutes he hit me again twice in the back of my head and kick me in the butt,,,,
they all laugh ,,, for me its starting to feel annoying and painful so i tried to walk away slowly ...
do you really think their physical joke is funny?
i try to understand that maybe they just have enough alcohol and they are drunk thats why they are doing it, but to hit me in the back of my head 3x and kick me in the
I cannot imagine a brother in law doing that to me, let alone a father in law, that makes it all weirder......
The next time he tried pulling that kind of joke at you again, speak up and tell him "hey, that hurts already".....
Or better yet, tell your father in law when he's sober that you're not a punching bag and as much as they probably think its funny
to give a joke punch and kick to a 4'11 girl like you by a 6 footer like him, tell him its more offensive than funny for you.....
It's quite strange too that your mother in law thinks its funny and just laugh instead of telling her husband to stop....
Draw the line, you don't deserve this kind of disrespect specially from your father in law, of all people
and don't put up with his crappy rude jokes......too bad though, that you're hubby thinks its funny as well,
when he's suppose to be the very first person to protect you and make sure you're not hurt in any way,
he should be the one telling his dad to stop and not justify his dad's behavior as nothing but an innocent joke.......
The bottomline is, its a painful, rude and disrespectful joke.....and it has to stop.
