Quote Originally Posted by allyn View Post
my hubby, father inlaw and brother inlaw went out tonight for a concert then had some drink,
me and my brother inlaw girl friend was been left behind in the flat and my mother inlaw pick them up to go to back in our flat after their concert and drink....
everyone seemed to be having fun, they are very happy when they arrive in our flat, i guess thats because they already a bit drunk ,,,all of us were laughing from their jokes...
but after a few minutes my father inlaw starting to hit me in the back of my head and kick me in the butt....
every one is laugh including my husband,,,it seemed to be a joke to them so i ignore it and laugh with them. Then after a couple of minutes he hit me again twice in the back of my head and kick me in the butt,,,,
they all laugh ,,, for me its starting to feel annoying and painful so i tried to walk away slowly ...



do you really think their physical joke is funny?
i try to understand that maybe they just have enough alcohol and they are drunk thats why they are doing it, but to hit me in the back of my head 3x and kick me in the
butt 2x is not funny its quite painfull.
This is so wrong on so many levels, if my dad had done this (and I can't ever imagine he would) I would have laid him out after first assault and thrown him out the house. Along with the rest of the family.. I am really sorry to say this but your husband needs to decide where his loyalties lie, with a bullying family who seem to think they can assault his wife with impunity or with a loving wife. I wish you luck and please remember you really do have choices, and I wouldn't even ever be in the same house as the father-in-law if you can avoid it.