embassy interview help !!

[jonathan47]

bluebirdjones, i can see you point, i did say something in my letter along the lines of that you woill see i have acted as a sponsor before but this relationship is completly different and that is why we applied for fiancee coz we knew we wanted to be together wheres as before wanted to wait and spend time together....in addition it was not so much the question but the aggresieve nature of the basically calling me a lier,and asking her to explain how she knows i love her because of my history !!! maybe i am odd but i dont see that as reasonable ! also i dont know about you but when i with my mahal i dont particularly want to talk about previous relationships what to whom when and why i like to concentrate on my mahal have fun and enjoy each others companies.... maybe i have been naive, but you have to to turn over a few stones to find the right one or kiss a few frogs which ever metaphor you prefer....i do not see in the rules where it says you cant apply for x number of months yrs or you cant apply if you applied before in the last 6 months. you just need to show its a genuine continuing relationship that you have met and can support !!!!!
the worest thing is if you know what i did for a living you would be surprised they were bring my credibility into doubt


regards


jonathan

[el capitan]

the worest thing is if you know what i did for a living you would be surprised they were bring my credibility into doubt

Does any career actually grant special credibility? Unfortunately such old fashioned notions allow people in certain jobs to abuse there positions without critical analysis.

[IainBusby]

i do not see in the rules where it says you cant apply for x number of months yrs or you cant apply if you applied before in the last 6 months.

Just as a matter of interest and more importantly because it may have some bearing on the ECO's train of thought, how long ago was it that you applied for a visit visa for a different girlfriend?

Iain.

[joebloggs]

.i do not see in the rules where it says you cant apply for x number of months yrs or you cant apply if you applied before in the last 6 months. you just need to show its a genuine continuing relationship that you have met and can support !!!!!
the worest thing is if you know what i did for a living you would be surprised they were bring my credibility into doubt

did you mention in the VV app you was in a relationship with the lady ? how long have you known your fiancée and how many times have you met her ?

the way some case workers could look at it, is you've applied for a VV for one filipina and 6 months later your applying for a fiancée visa for a different filipina you could have credibility problems.

nothing wrong with that as you've said, looks to me like the case worker was testing to see if it's a sham relationship, you only need to look at the number of women from former eastern block countries who have wed non Europeans in the uk to see why sham marriages are on the rise.

but if you was not engaged to the first lady, i dont see why you would have a problem if you had enough evidence that your relationship is genuine.

anyway you've not been refused yet, so i wish you luck