rickr,
thanks for the link, very useful and yes there are different standards as i guess there is room for interpretation in the rules, i was reading about some judicial actions that had been taken about what "should of met" condition of fiance application, apparently some people had knew each other as children lived in different countries then i guess were unite in love through remote contact ...apparently it didnt satisfy the court they had met in the true sense !!! heheh i share this just to illustrate how diferently people can interpret so call rules.
regards
jonathan