Iain,
i agree with everything you said...mmm thats scary (joke) thank you for your help and advice, i have just spoken with the immigration adviser mention by the forum and he was very helpful explained the circumstances and he said that no decision is a good sign as they have not made a decision one way or other and if strong evidence to refuse would of done it on the day, also the fact she didnt know about past relationships or application is irrelevant ! you have a right to have gf's annd to make considered judgements and it may be that i didnt want to tell her and why should i ! and the fact they interviewed her means everything else with the application is ok ?..so if refuse based on knowledge of my past he says would be very dodgy and would have good grounds for re-consideration and appeal....bad news could take a few weeks before they finally make a decision.
regards
jonathan
