Its true Soph,I never was a guy to settle for second best,and I have winnowed a lot of chaff in my time I have met some absolutely stunning women,but without character whats the use,physical beauty fades with time,character and intellect never fade but improve like a fine wineNever limit yourself by grabbing the first woman who shows interest,take your time,years even,and select someone special Fluttering eyelashes and a dimpled smile are easy to find,search for something with a little more substance