Originally Posted by
aphrodite78
hi,
it must be hard for you to go thru this situation.
if you decided to leave your husband sooner or later you can still stay in the uk until your spouse visa runs out. whatever you decide make sure you are not on a loosing end (i.e. you have something saved up for a new start, i agree with the forum members who commented that you open a new account ASAP). at the end of the day it's your life, your choice, just make sure you choose wisely and that you could live with the decision you are about to make. good luck.
i had a similar situation with two previous partners, secret messaging over the internet. it turned out my suspicions were correct and i soon ended both. try and talk things out to get to the truth, but first and foremost get some savings behind you in case you need to bail out.
