Originally Posted by
iamnoangel
Thank you all very much for the replies. Perhaps I should try and forgive him again and see if he'll change. I will be wise now and keep some money for myself coz right now I don't even have a single penny in my wallet. Our joint account is always in overdraft and we're literally living on overdraft. I haven't had any financial trouble before I got married, I had a very nice career in the Philippines but now I'm putting up with all these bull****.
Attagirl ... that's the spirit! Tell your husband "enough is enough!" ... and that, unless he PROVES he can mend his ways, you WILL carry out your threat to LEAVE him. At the same time, make it crystal clear you intend to open a bank account for yourself. Good Luck ... and remember we're here to provide a "listening ear" and offer our support.
