Quote Originally Posted by iamnoangel View Post
Thank you all very much for the replies. Perhaps I should try and forgive him again and see if he'll change. I will be wise now and keep some money for myself coz right now I don't even have a single penny in my wallet. Our joint account is always in overdraft and we're literally living on overdraft. I haven't had any financial trouble before I got married, I had a very nice career in the Philippines but now I'm putting up with all these bull****.
9 mos is early to say I give up. Marriage is commitment and compromise. Soon as you made the vow what is his is yours and vice versa. Trust is essential. It is not only him to support you but also you to support him (all aspect, financial, moral, emotional,physical,spiritual etc)

You need to talk to your husband and tell him how it affects you because maybe he is not aware that he is making you unhappy, if he dont listen then it is entirely up to you to make yourself happy ..one is stop snooping or checking up on him because it will just make you feel bad, divert your stress to something constructive go to the gymm, do some shopping (when you finally got your own money) completely ignore what his doing and try to keep busy.

hope all goes well. Take care.