Dave, I can't imagine the stress you're going through, but if you could post the whole procedure that you've been through it would be good to know. Although i've read advice on another website, it's still a bit vague and we're planning to marry in Cebu in November 2010 :-) Whilst we have a venue, receptions, hotels and flights already in progress... (yes we're keen!) the whole procedural side is baffling....