Marriage / Doubts

[whiteraven]

this does seem to be eating you up pretty badly, but as you say there doesnt seem to be any proof that there is still something going on as this time so i would simply give her the benefit of the doubt at the moment unless something else crops up. it could be a case of this was before your time so it is none of your business. but if this was my wife she would certainly tell me and wouldnt keep in contact any longer with any exes.

[joebloggs]

this does seem to be eating you up pretty badly, but as you say there doesnt seem to be any proof that there is still something going on as this time so i would simply give her the benefit of the doubt at the moment unless something else crops up

yes paranoia can come with a LDR
time and distance can make you a bit

as whiteraven said give her the benefit of the doubt and see how it goes don't ruin your relationship unless you've got strong evidence of wrong doing