Quote Originally Posted by pacificelectric View Post
Exploring each other's past as far back to your/her first experience may not be the best idea. Building trust is a long and painstaking process but once you have done it, you will feel much better and see much clearer! If possible focus on the present and the future....
I agree...

I feel that she is merely chatting with other people .. just because... I have friend who was also in an LDR.. bf was so jealous about her chat friends which are just plainly that... friends.. eventually, my friend broke up with him.. got fed up with the heartache the bf was causing her...

why am i sharing this? simply to let you know that it is normal for anyone to have online friends.. you can also do that.. no one's stopping you... but to think that your gf might be having cybersex with another man or other men.... is for me utterly utterly low.... do you think she is capable of doing that? if so, why are you still with her? but if you know her as someone who is loyal and true.. then by god, stop suffering and end all these ridiculous thoughts!