Hi Landa -
These are common thoughts!! but here i am - with my love in england - maybey its just a part of a normal courtship - with the added pressures and different cultures - i cant say dont be worried thats normal -
The Dating site thing - been there - but again as one of the previous threads suggested if its past dont wry
The land topic - - have you been there~? cant remember from the thread but - if you havent go = amazing country and after 2 years I am actually purchasing a little land - not a a house (yet) - for both me and my filipino familys future comfort -(in the long run belive me its cheaper than all those hotel bills, and if like me you will almost imediately fall in love with the family and friends indigenious surrouddings)) Have you met the family?? Of course your prospective wife wants security for her family that goes deep in thier culture and perhaps might i say a little lost in england - and for sure all around the world there are people who wish this - theres my point of perhaps caution - be truthful - if your rich your rich, if your comfortable your comfotable, if your lonely desparate or otherwise just be sure to tell the truth - thats it! Truth - Understanding and embracing culture and above all be happy = = = = = === =