i think you got the wrong impression i do more than my fair share of the housework in fact ive done all of it this week including cooking and washing up. apart from the weather there isnt anything she doesnt like, she spent 2 hours on skype with her family today excitedly talking in visaya about the house , pub and local morrisons. friday we are going with a group of friends to cheltenham to do some shopping for more winter clothes, a good excuse to pop into witherspoons to get warm