Flirting

[el capitan]

All males will flirt married or not, whether they know they are doing it or not, it is genetically built in. The question should be: "When you are flirting are you just having a bit of friendly banter, or looking for something else?"

So girls, if hubby says they are not they are lying, guys don't suddenly think all other women suddenly become ugly just because they have you.

I always thought women are more flirty than men, especially when they are after assistance. Women basicly use flirting as a tool (or weapon) to get men to do what they want.

[South-east boy]

I always thought women are more flirty than men, especially when they are after assistance. Women basicly use flirting as a tool (or weapon) to get men to do what they want.

That is true with some women and some are very good at it! I think it depends on how you are as a person. If the person is quite confident, outgoing and they seem to get more attention from the opposite sex, then that type of person is much more likely to flirt! It also depends on what you call flirting.

I don't agree that all males flirt as someone who is shy and doesn't get so much attention from women is not going to flirt that much. They can try but if women don't seem to find them that attractive, their flirting isn't really going to get very far! Sure, I agree that most guys will find it hard not to look at attractive women, but I don't really call that flirting, unless they do it very obviously, hoping to see that the woman they are looking at will notice him looking at her and will flirt back to him.

[KeithD]

I don't agree that all males flirt as someone who is shy and doesn't get so much attention from women is not going to flirt that much.

Trust me, they all do, they just don't notice.

Have an ugly bird ask a quiet guy for help, then repeat with a real beauty, and the guy will go more out of his way to help. Plenty of double-blind scientific experiments proving all this kind of thing.

[el capitan]

Trust me, they all do, they just don't notice.

Have an ugly bird ask a quiet guy for help, then repeat with a real beauty, and the guy will go more out of his way to help. Plenty of double-blind scientific experiments proving all this kind of thing.

Isn't that the women flirting and the man just being gullable.

[KeithD]

Isn't that the women flirting and the man just being gullable.

I'm answering the question, which concerns men.

If you want it from a womans perspective, a woman will flirt whether she is ugly/beautiful in order to entice the best mate for the job. Most women will only concentrate on one guy, apart from the odd Manc slapper ... whereas a guy wants to spread his seed as much as possible.

[Northerner]

I'm answering the question, which concerns men.

If you want it from a womans perspective, a woman will flirt whether she is ugly/beautiful in order to entice the best mate for the job. Most women will only concentrate on one guy, apart from the odd Manc slapper ... whereas a guy wants to spread his seed as much as possible.

Ahh Boss, you wish you lived in Manchester.. Don't you??

[pacificelectric]

My girlfriend always claimed she has been "pakipot" at the beginning of our correspondence, waiting for me to make the first move, but with hindsight I am wondering.....

[South-east boy]

Trust me, they all do, they just don't notice.

Have an ugly bird ask a quiet guy for help, then repeat with a real beauty, and the guy will go more out of his way to help. Plenty of double-blind scientific experiments proving all this kind of thing.

I agree with what you said there but is that flirting? A more outgoing confident guy would take advantage of the situation and flirt, but a quieter guy would help the girl but most likely do nothing on the flirting side or not know how to flirt!

These scientific tests are quite interesting though!