helo every one....
thank you very much for your post...
for an update of my thread,,,
i talked to my husband after i post my thread, told him what i felt, and not in my surprise he told me im rude...and too emotional...
He said he's brother is just jocking when he said that "when i married his brother i never thought his brother have no money,but when i get here i found out that he have none")
he said specifically, that his family cant make a joke without insulting me, he said i always feel like insulted whenever his family talked to me and i cant understand proper english, he said my comprehension with english is really bad...
And about the girl, he said im rude to her, he said im not making an effort to make her feel at home, that i should understand that girl because she is somehow having psychological problem after got miscarriage a month ago...(actually its 2nd time my husband said that to me
)....and my husband is just being nice to her, and if the girl fancy him he cant do anything about it...
oh my, im already paying our rent and that girl is not even paying any cent, cant even buy a toilet roll even tho she have a fulltime job, i smiled at her and even cook once for her and she just walk out on me after eating the food i made...dont understand what kind of effort my husband still want me to do....
then my husband youngest brother, mum and dad came and knock in our door, they pick us up to go to my husband's grands parents for dinner
(my husband grand parents are very nice and very supportive, i love them so much
) but when we got there i cant even make my self smile, everytime i tried to open my mouth i wanted to cry, but i tried to shut my self up and granda and gran notice me being very quiet....then out of the blue my husband said to his mum that im a rude person...i wanted to cry in that moment...
then after the dinner and we went back home we started to argue again,,,but this time the couple is in their room...and my husband is telling me out loud that im a very rude person....im in the point of walking out...
cant take it anymore...
if only i have another place to go to...
i want to run as far a way as i can...
life is so unfair
Originally Posted by allyn
helo every one....
You can buy cyanide and strychnine online if you know where to look
Enough is already much MORE than enough! For me, alarm bells started ringing when I first read of the "treatment" meeted out by his father [after his drinking session] a few weeks ago ... and it's bothered me ever since! 
