for PINAY wives!

[lizaphil]

ok i have been reading all the happy endings in this forum. met online fell in love got married, applied for a visa, visa granted, flying to the UK, eventually having kids.
being married of course is so exciting at first. but as time past, when the spark is gone, do you feel resentment of having to give up life in the philippines for our lives here? are you just as in love with your husband as the day you married him? do you have any regrets?
sometimes i do.. i look at my husband and think, dear what a miserable git he is. if i had a choice i would go back home and stay there! but unfortunately i have a son whose life is here, and there is no way i would leave him.
i cannot deny that i find life here so boring, my neighbours i do not know unlike back home where i can go house to house and eat their food. here you just cannot turn up at peoples houses unannounced.
huge culture difference as well, we are raised to help our elderly. here it nursing homes. we have a huge family that supports as back home, here it is just the hubby, and the kids.
hayzzz sorry for going on and on i guess i am just missing home so much especially now xmas is here.
i hope all you pinays have a good xmas and not missing home too much.

hi maria.
this is my 3year xmas here in uk...but this year i feel really missing home so much
like i said to my hubby im not staying here for next year i find really boring,
this year...so next year we both have xmas on PI...hope you have happy new year...even not really

[maria_and_matt]

hi maria.
this is my 3year xmas here in uk...but this year i feel really missing home so much
like i said to my hubby im not staying here for next year i find really boring,
this year...so next year we both have xmas on PI...hope you have happy new year...even not really

awww sis hugs to you! at least you have the balls to talk about it.. things will get better when the holidays are over, hang in there.. happy new to you and your hubby