Very true the Wife and her mates went to a New Phill UK group Christmas Party where just about every phill in the local area and a few who had travel from further a field came.Originally Posted by Win2Win
Now you're making excuses! It'd be your group, your rules, as I run this forum, if they don't fit they are out. I never care what others think of me, I'm happy running this forum and if I upset a few folk along the way, hard luck.
Must be 100's of decent Filipina's in your area out of the 1000's, just looking for someone else decent to hang around with. Start with those you don't know.
Did most of them chat to people on other tables or make contacts/friends. Nope they stayed in their own small groups on the whole.
Although the Wife and her friends did chat to two ladies who sat on our table and had a laugh.
Very easy for people from any background to mope and be depressed, sometimes it does mean taking a few risks. Maybe people will be rude or bore/show off or what have you but then again they maybe great company.
Strangly at the xmas party many of the Brit blokes of various ages and backgrounds chatted to one another more than the Phills
Already bumped into a few of them out and about. Some were friendly still others were not, no skin off my nose.
Probably the reason we chatted was because there was no pressure for us to do, while many pinays in the UK feel the pressure to make friends
Said it before try to make friends with people from all backgrounds (many pinays came to the party with friends who were none phill) from what I noticed many of these seemed to know more pinays at the party, possibly as less pressure to befriend people
