Quote Originally Posted by Northerner View Post

But I am wondering if others on here were able to focus on the future and get on with everything else,

You learn slowly, the hard way....

Early morning and late nights in front of the pc, waiting for that somebody to get online, and give her a quick call to make sure she does...

Then it becomes a routine, and more bearable..

And the more often you go overthere for a visit, the less likely you feel to come back to the rat race....

Sink or swim, really....