When you're a full member on a dating site, it gets a little tiresome of all the ones trying to chat to you, especially when they don't really know how to make conversation or say much on their profile. I was a bit more selective in who I was looking for in that I wanted someone who had a job, had qualifications, wasn't too young, made an effort with their profile & what they said + seemed friendly, caring, honest and made an effort when sending me messages. So many just want the easy way of chatting on web-cam and don't like to put in too much effort.
