Unless your mega rich dont start hiring appartments and what not it will mean that its expected all the time. Wheter a Pinay realises or not she most likely will want to spend as much time with her family and friends as possible. The best place to stay then if possible would be in a family home rather than her own.

Trust like others write in the thread, needs to be there between you both. How would you feel if the missus had a Private eye following you?