You won't need to solve any problem if you won't create any. Let her stay in a family home. In a Filipino culture, we're used to having the men (father, borther, husband) work away from home, and yes, mostly abroad..but their wives remain faithful to them.
Don't even bother hiring detectives, it just shows how you don't trust her. and if you even entertain such thoughts, don't bother being with the girl. It simply shows you have no trust.
The people here are right, take it slowly..meet her family and friends, then you'll know her. I don't particularly like gfs asking their foreign bfs for money.
I hope when you meet someone new, you won't be in the same predicament you were almost in last time.
best of luck to you!
