How do you solve this problem?

[jam07]

I'm just thinking about this scenario:

You meet a nice lady in phils, you went to meet her and her family and everything was cool and all accepted u and you want to show her you're serious with her etc... and you rent a small apartment for her and furnish it up to live until maybe 6-12months when to sort out her UK VISA etc..

How do you make sure while you're apart i.e you back in UK, she is not bringing back local "lover boys" to your rented apartment to entertained etc..?


I'm not in this situation yet but I nearly was last year.

any advise how to solve this apart from maybe getting a covert 24hr private detective on her which will cost tons of money.

I dont see a point of renting an apartment for her . You dont need to do that. Its not necessary.

Its good that you are NOT in that situation now

[aromulus]

Is this for real...???

Making a rod for his own back...?

[bornatbirth]

Is this for real...???

Making a rod for his own back...?

i think hes been meeting the wrong lady