How do you solve this problem?

[Steve.r]

My caution is from what I know from many thai girls which I know some of them run many foreign bf in one go (have actually witnessed this in my little time i spent in thailand)

I suppose I could be wrong to bring the same suspicion to filipinos

I think you use a big brush to tar a lot of people blackcat. But in the same breath, there are also many people like that the world over, here in the Uk also.
Take your time and build trust, if she lies, then the lies will surface soon enough. Personally, I don't see the point in renting somewhere, unless she is living on the street right now, but I am sure she lives with her family, so why would you even bother?

[Sim11UK]

Meet someone, gain trust, be trusting (provided there aren't obvious bad signs)...simple as that really...Just let things develop naturally.

Forget about greengrocers watching out for you, the wrong train of thought.
You have no financial obligation to house anyone....maybe possibly later, if you are gettting married, or whatever.

Plenty of happily marrieds here, because they built a relationship on trust.

[happydoc]

Take your time and build trust

I guess that time is the key factor - if blackcat feels that his gf fell in love with him so quickly then she might fall in love with someone else equally as quickly...

Love, in its infancy, does need protecting - or at least tending, like a young sappling - I'm assuming their relationship has gone beyond the germination phase...

Perhaps her friends and family would be better people to get to know rather than local greengrocers -ie. people who know her and could remind her of Blackcat's qualities if her eyes do get distracted... sort of like God-parents...offering a guiding hand rather than gestapo offering covert surveillance!