Hmmmmm? this last sentence you wrote, is quite disturbing.
What I said earlier, you are right. No I wouldn't make a trip out there, if you were just friends, there has to be something more.
I thought now you had heard from her, she may have been trying to get a bit more committment from you, to visit her.
She has certainly dropped a bombshell on you, with this Danish guy...Believe me, strange things can happen in the Philippines. I feel for you, it's her loss.
Don't be dis-heartened, stick around here, you will find someone who wants to be with you for who you are & dosen't have an ulterior motive.![]()