Quote Originally Posted by triple5 View Post
She'll probably be back in touch soon enough, mate, I guess I was just basing my assumptions on my own experiences this time last year. My ex gf went away for a " xmas vacation" but was actually on her honeymoon

I had thought the same as you, that what I had done for her and her family financially/kindness that she would be faithful Every filipina is different, some are patient and understanding some not so. Whereas my ex wanted marriage/kids asap, my current gf seems prepared to take things more slowly.

Has Suzie dropped any hints about settling down or what she hopes for your future?
Blimey! That must have been a pretty nasty shock! Had you met her? How long before the wedding had she last been in contact with you? How did you meet your current lady and how long after you started contact did you meet?

Well, I know she would like to get get married, but doesn't seem to be in any hurry and hasn't mentioned children or anything yet. She said about coming to work here, but when I looked into it, it wouldn't be possible as as you know they have cracked right down on immigration. It doesn't help how I feel, that someone who I was seeing before (in UK) was also seeing an ex at the same time as me for a while. Maybe I am too trusting, but I don't think it's good to start out not trusting them. I'm certainly going to be asking some serious questions about what she wants, thinks about me and what the future could hold.

As I've mentioned before with what I spent on the presents, courier and customs & VAT, I could have flown to see her for cheaper. The courier costed more than the original cost, then the customs and VAT doubled that and when I had to add up the value of the presents for the courier shipping list I was quite surprised to find what I had spent (about £250+, but she had around £300 worth because of special offers I had got etc), but I guess I hadn't realised as I bought things now & again over a few months. Make-up soon adds up!