What are you like with text/sms messages?

[TomThumb]

I'm sorry to hear about her dropping out of contact. I can't imagine what it would feel like. I know I start feeling anxious if my girl is half an hour late logging on.
I'm not really in a position to give advice, but I will tell you what I think about your situation anyway. We are most of us looking for somebody who will care for us and who we can care for. At the moment we don't know why your girlfriend has disappeared, and she may have a good reason. But if she doesn't have a very good reason for suddenly dropping out of contact for a week, then she is at best very insensitive, and possibly cruel. Not the kind of girl I would want to be in a relationship with. Perhaps you have been very hurtful to her without realising it, but unless you have been truly awful, even for this just dropping out of contact for so long seems excessive.
Because of this opinion, to me there is nothing wrong with your trying to ring her as much as you feel like till until you get an answer as to what is going on. When I ring up using one of those services where you dial another number initially, and then the number you want, then my number doesn't appear on her display.
To me, if is she is a good person in a difficult situation, she will be glad to hear from you, and if she is annoyed at your persistence, then she isn't worth the bother.
I realise that this is easy for me to say since it isn't my relationship I'm talking about. Good luck. I hope it works out for you. Please keep us informed.
Tom.

[South-east boy]

Am thinking of ringing again in a while as it's been a week now- If I phone her home no. and she is still not there and a brother or sister answers, I would like to ask where is she staying, who is she staying with, when did she go etc as well as the obvious do you know when she will be back? But of course asking all those will sound like I am asking 20 questions or interrigating them, so not sure what to ask and how to ask without it sound like that.

[jam07]

Am thinking of ringing again in a while as it's been a week now- If I phone her home no. and she is still not there and a brother or sister answers, I would like to ask where is she staying, who is she staying with, when did she go etc as well as the obvious do you know when she will be back? But of course asking all those will sound like I am asking 20 questions or interrigating them, so not sure what to ask and how to ask without it sound like that.

south-east boy, you have the right to ask anything and everything. Its just gonna bother you if you dont ask those questions so go ahead and call.

[Doc Alan]

south-east boy, you have the right to ask anything and everything. Its just gonna bother you if you dont ask those questions so go ahead and call.

I agree, that's your priority and right . Until you actually speak with her don't worry about budgeting to raise money. If the worst comes to the worst and the relationship's over, your financial planning will come in useful for someone more deserving of you.

[South-east boy]

I was thinking that maybe she could have forgotten to take the phone charger with her on vacation and the battery ran out, but thinking about it, it can't be that as her phone would not ring if the battery was dead or the phone switched off. So she has either left her phone behind at home or if she has the phone with her, then she has been ignoring my calls and messages. If her phone was in a no signal area I guess when I ring I would not hear it ringing and it would sound like it's switched off?

[jam07]

I was thinking that maybe she could have forgotten to take the phone charger with her on vacation and the battery ran out, but thinking about it, it can't be that as her phone would not ring if the battery was dead or the phone switched off. So she has either left her phone behind at home or if she has the phone with her, then she has been ignoring my calls and messages. If her phone was in a no signal area I guess when I ring I would not hear it ringing and it would sound like it's switched off?

I fear that she is ignoring your call or messages. I'm sorry. Its just that I dont see any excuse not to take your call or reply to your messages. If she has been ill or hospitalized, her family will tell you the moment you call. If she at last manages or decided to talk to you, she has to have a good and valid excuse. Because leaving someone in the dark is unacceptable.