Am thinking of ringing again in a while as it's been a week now- If I phone her home no. and she is still not there and a brother or sister answers, I would like to ask where is she staying, who is she staying with, when did she go etc as well as the obvious do you know when she will be back? But of course asking all those will sound like I am asking 20 questions or interrigating them, so not sure what to ask and how to ask without it sound like that.