Do you have any other friends in phils? It would be interesting to see if she answers the phone if it was a local number showing up. then at least you'd know shes purposefully ignoring you f she answers.
tbh, 9 days away without saying anything is out of order. Theres obviously not some kind of emergency as her family would have said so. If it were me I'd start thinking about moving on. Do you really want a relationship with somebody that inconsiderate?
