That's harsh mate, but at least you know the score now, no more trying to figure out whats going on. I agree with what Tomthumb & Dedworth says, doesn't sound like much of a catch tbh.

I've been looking for someone for all my life, who knows how to take care of me and my family and show his love to us unconditionally.
She had said yesterday that if I go to see her, that I would need quite a bit of money as she has large family!
The kind of girl whose looking for a sponsor for the family more than an actual husband. I think you've had a lucky escape in all honesty.