What are you like with text/sms messages?

[South-east boy]

Sorry to hear about this Tim.

Finally she found the decency to tell you the truth, so she rather meet a stranger than to meet you whom she knows for several months .
I don't believe her for saying she didn't know how the stranger guy looks like (some sort of a blind date??? ) and that her friend sent a sms message to her sister telling her to meet someone she never knew. She wanted to meet this guy just because she's in a hurry to get married

I don't want to judge her but I think she used you and played with your feelings. You deserve someone better than her, you're a nice man and it's her loss for letting you go. It's cruel of her to tell you that she can't have a special feelings for you

So I must say better know her real colors this early than be sorry later.
I hope next time you'll be lucky in love.

Thanks Liane! It half seems like an arranged marriage! Friend texts and says that a guy is coming to see you next week, neither of who have met, chatted, know much about each other or anything. I should have listened to my doubts near the beginning after she had said about how she met her ex-fiance. He was American and a sister/sister-in/law posed as her on a dating site. Then her sister/sister-in law said to the ex-fiance when he had booked the trip to see her, that it wasn't really her and also said to Suzie that he going to see her, so she was shocked about that too. He wasn't very happy and nearly cancelled, but still went and they got engaged. Not sure if it was on that first trip or not. As far as I now he didn't go again and after a year and a half of not getting anywhere, she broke it off. I did think that all that was strange, but as were getting on well, I kinda put it to the back of my mind.

You know, when I work out what I have spent on the Birthday & Christmas presents, courier, VAT & customs charges, other mobile phone and smart sim card, phone cards, smart loads to her phone etc, that has come to over £600! Now if she had been asking when I was coming, had made it clear that she felt strongly for me/had fallen for me etc, was looking to get married etc, had said don't spend money on other things, but to spend it on trip to see her instead and I had fallen for her, I would have given up my Salsa classes etc & maybe other little things and this over the 2nd half of last year + the money I had spent on the previous mentioned things would have paid for a trip to see her! But like people have said, maybe it was better that this didn't happen in the end?