What are you like with text/sms messages?

[South-east boy]

That's harsh mate, but at least you know the score now, no more trying to figure out whats going on. I agree with what Tomthumb & Dedworth says, doesn't sound like much of a catch tbh.





The kind of girl whose looking for a sponsor for the family more than an actual husband. I think you've had a lucky escape in all honesty.

Hmmmmm? this last sentence you wrote, is quite disturbing.

What I said earlier, you are right. No I wouldn't make a trip out there, if you were just friends, there has to be something more.
I thought now you had heard from her, she may have been trying to get a bit more committment from you, to visit her.

She has certainly dropped a bombshell on you, with this Danish guy...Believe me, strange things can happen in the Philippines. I feel for you, it's her loss.

Don't be dis-heartened, stick around here, you will find someone who wants to be with you for who you are & dosen't have an ulterior motive.

Yes, she has 13 brothers and sisters, although on older brother is married & his wife works in London, an older sister is married & her husband lives in LA, USA, a an older sister is married with kids, another older sister is married with one kid, a younger sister is engaged to a guy from USA, and another sister works in Taiwan. So they are not all at home. She has one sister at home that doesn't work, one brother that has just finished a course, the engaged sister at home doesn't work, 3 younger brothers and sisters that are College students and a younger sister at school. She says that all her wages go to the family, so she doesn't have much to herself

I would have thought that if wanted me to come over that much, she wouldn't have said about that I would need a fair bit of money when I go. Of course I would take them for a meal and trip somewhere etc, but if she wanted to see me that much and to make it easier & sooner for me to come, then she wouldn't have said that, as saying that would mean that it would take longer to come because of saving more money up. Or maybe she was saying that to put me off coming?

Once before after she had said about coming here to work and I said that sorry, but it is not that easy, even nurses and care workers won't be able to to or will find it hard to and she replied with "are you trying to depress me?". Maybe this is another reason why she might have decided she didn't feel for me or wanted to end it?