Thanks Alan! It has been quite a couple of weeks for me. There was 12 days of worrying and wondering, lost sleep, then 2 days ago I thought that it was probably over, then yesterday when I got hold of her, I thought it was back on, then today it seems it's all over and she never felt anything for me.I think she just wants to get married and move to another country urgently. I don't think that she is too bothered who it is with or where it is.