Quote Originally Posted by jam07 View Post
I think its lame when you ditch someone you know for a couple of months for someone who is practically a stranger ... Its not that we are blaming you of not meeting her while on the earlier stage of um... 'relationship' but dont you think it will make things a bit diff'rent if you come and visit her?... I'm sorry about what happend to you but I (as well as the others i think) am not suprised that this will end up like this and she will ditch you once she gets in-touch with you again. I think it doesnt end there, wait till she meet the danish guy. If she is not attracted to him, I have a feeling that she will communicate with you again

Thanks Jam. Well it was 7 months which seem to have meant nothing to her. Oh of course, it would be different if I went to see her, but I wasn't getting wrong enough feelings from her to make me want to go more. Like you mentioned earlier, I would not be surprised if she had been with the Danish guy during that time when I couldn't get hold of her. Also because she seems to be breaking it off with me and she says that she hasn't met him yet, so she has either met him and is keen or hasn't met him but is so keen that she is trying to break it off with me. What if she meets him and doesn't like or get on with him, then with what she has said to me, kinda ending it, she will be back to no-one. Do you think that she would do this before having met the Danish guy & risking having no-one? Kinda putting all her eggs in the basket of a stranger against someone that she has known for 7 months.

In one of my first posts about this, I wondered if this is what might have happened (another guy gone to see her). But if not and she is meeting him next week, but they end up not getting on, after what she has said, if you were me, would you still be interested in her?