I know the start of the year has not gone off quite as you were hoping in the late part of 2009 but I have a feeling it is going to get far better Sir
I'd go along with that It's only natural that you'll lose a bit of sleep while you pick over the bones of whats happened, but you'll come out of it a lot wiser.

Even though I said previously you have to be quick if you meet a good filipina, you were also right to take your time. It would have been a big mistake to go on and marry the girl. Be thankful you got out while you did. I was strung along a lot longer than you and it cost a lot more But no regrets

SEB there's a lot of simlarities between your story and mine, which I posted about this same time last year. A lots happened in that year. My train wreck turned into quite a smooth ride, because of what happened I went onto meet a goodun. Wouldnt be surprised if the same happens to you