What are you like with text/sms messages?

[South-east boy]

i never said it was your fault.

i suspect she was chatting to other guys as well as you and never lost contact with you and the other guys, just in case she didnt like them and could fall back on the other guys, it may not seem nice but chatting to guy's for several month's for nothing to happen....it's first come..first served.

if you start chatting to a filipina, then you take the responsibility to pay for everything, if you can't afford to go and see her and need to wait and save up first then i guess there's not much you can do about that.

why beat yourself up over her, forget her and have a long think about the type of girl you would like to meet.

until you meet a filipina and become bf/gf don't give her anything.

She did say that she wasn't in contact with any other guys which is another reason why I thought that she was ok with everything, but well she has lied just recently, so maybe she wasn't telling the truth? I know she hadn't been back on the dating site where I met her, but of course could have been on others if she hadn't been telling me the truth.

Like I said before, I didn't intend on spending all that on her, and I thought that with her receiving a fair few presents, it would be hard on her brothers and sisters with nothing, so that and it being their first Christmas without her Dad was why I sent Christmas things for the family, especially her mum. It was only when I had to work out the value of what I was sending for the courier & customs that I realised what I had spent. As I bought bits now & again, I hadn't noticed it so much. The courier and customs/VAT charges came to £170! I won't be making that mistake again of sending things that way or spending that much on someone that I haven't met! Lesson learned! I thought that she would have thought of me more than someone that she was just in contact with what I just mentioned and with getting the phone cards to phoning her, getting the extra mobile phone with roaming smart sim so she could text me cheaply and sending smart loads to her mobile. Would I have done those things if I wasn't that interested in her?

I know the type of girl I want, but it isn't easy to find them and even when I sometimes think I have, they then turn out to be not so honest or nice as I thought they were.