lover-or player?

[triple5]

Any beautiful woman is going to have admirers and exes, but the fact she's receiving texts from guys saying "love you too" when she's with you doesnt look good. She must have been telling him she loves him as well. Your first time together in dubai and your arguing, thats not a very good sign. What happened to your first choice girl anyway?

She could have just been playing the game before she fell for you, but from what you say it sounds like shes still, at least, flirting with other guys.

There's plenty of filipinas who once you've won them over will be faithful and would never do the things you've mentioned above.

[Bluebirdjones]

You've asked numerous questions about your chances of a successful visa application,
shall I do this, can I do that, etc etc,

...and....

you are still not sure if she's the one for you...
...or if she's being honest & straight with you ! FFS !

So, my FINAL, FINAL, FINAL comments on this ....

... as she's already in Dubai, in successful employment, earning bundles, why don't you
apply for a visitor's visa (at the British Embassy in Dubai) for her to come and see you ?
The chances of getting it are very high.
So... she comes & visits you for a week ..... and in 3-4mnths repeats the exercise.
This will allow you to get to know each other better... and REALLY decide if you/her are
for real.
... It';ll also give u an opportunity to organise yourself/finance in your new work environment.


If this all works out ... in 6-8 mnths you can go down the fiancee route, and with her 2 visits to
the UK already "in the can" , you are obviously gonna be successful.

END OF .....

[jam07]

P-L-A-Y-E-R!

[South-east boy]

I have to say that I would find it quite hard to trust her after that and would need lots of reasurrance & proof after that.

[Doc Alan]

P-L-A-Y-E-R!

P-L-A-Y-E-R-S

[tycon]

P-L-A-Y-E-R!

thankyou jonathon,kelly,triple5 and southeast for your hepfull comments.
pinkblush jackson,d+g and jam....personally,i tend to ask questions and not immediately presume the worst of a person.i like to give people a chance,to i begin calling me a player etc-you are only exposing your complete ignorance.i thought this site was about helping people-not playground name calling?

[jam07]

thankyou jonathon,kelly,triple5 and southeast for your hepfull comments.
pinkblush jackson,d+g and jam....personally,i tend to ask questions and not immediately presume the worst of a person.i like to give people a chance,to i begin calling me a player etc-you are only exposing your complete ignorance.i thought this site was about helping people-not playground name calling?

Tycon, your thread title is 'lover or player?' I just answerd what your question is. I dont give further comments because its an already spot on answer. And it is not specifically meant to you but on the situtation that you wrote. Please.

[tycon]

Any beautiful woman is going to have admirers and exes, but the fact she's receiving texts from guys saying "love you too" when she's with you doesnt look good. She must have been telling him she loves him as well. Your first time together in dubai and your arguing, thats not a very good sign. What happened to your first choice girl anyway?

She could have just been playing the game before she fell for you, but from what you say it sounds like shes still, at least, flirting with other guys.

There's plenty of filipinas who once you've won them over will be faithful and would never do the things you've mentioned above.

hi my 1st phills gf,well ,everything seemed to be going well,i had booked my flight to dubai to go see her,then one day after 8 months,she phoned me and told me never to contact her again because she has a bf.i was very surprised to say the least as we had talked about marriage,kids etc,but hey what could i do but delete her?the strange thing was that while i was in dubai she phoned me and asked if we could meet up!!!i told her no of course(politely)