lover-or player?

[triple5]

hi my 1st phills gf,well ,everything seemed to be going well,i had booked my flight to dubai to go see her,then one day after 8 months,she phoned me and told me never to contact her again because she has a bf.i was very surprised to say the least as we had talked about marriage,kids etc,but hey what could i do but delete her?the strange thing was that while i was in dubai she phoned me and asked if we could meet up!!!i told her no of course(politely)

Thats unlucky I would have done the same in your shoes, with the flight booked I would have arranged to meet another girl if possible. Doesn't make you a player imo.

[aromulus]

Thats unlucky I would have done the same in your shoes, with the flight booked I would have arranged to meet another girl if possible. Doesn't make you a player imo.

Meet another berd in Dubai....?

[triple5]

Meet another berd in Dubai....?

Yep, why not. Nothing wrong with having a plan B.

[South-east boy]

Your story with the first girl, sounds a bit like what has just happened with me (the what are you like with text messages thread) although i hadn't booked a flight.

Some women know that they are attractive, see how men admire them and take advantage of that. Now a nice girl would just want one guy and would refuse of ignore advances & attention from other guys & not flirt with them. But some girls will take advantage of the guys attention, flirt a lot even if they have a guy and have a whole list of guys phone numbers who take her out now & again when she fancies. This is the type of girl that you don't want and your girl sounds a bit like that.

Maybe give her a chance bit be very cautious & check up on her now & again - say she needs to earn your trust after that. Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone like that and it's a whole lot harder on you as in different countries you can't see what she is up to.