Yeah, we can all be rather disfunctional, and like to make things more bearable by using humour, of some sort or the other.
But basically the main aim of the forum is to be of help to other people undergoing the heartbreaking and frustrating journey of long distance relationships.
It is a pity that some people, after their successful outcome in getting a visa of some sort, don't stick around anymore and try to help others, but it is a free country.