thanks bornatbirth,
sounds like a good solution. am pretty thick when i comes to weddings as have never been married before.If we could do that then i would be really happy..am still trying to get my head round organising the wedding and visa rules.Its seems all chicken and egg, catch 22 at the moment and i hate it. Registry, then church wedding sounds great. .The most important thing in my life is getting leizel over here then begining our life together.I would like a church wedding for leizel but the way things are i would be so happy just to have her here