Sounds familiar. Lost my house, car, job, friends, total poison. She never even told me that her father died 3 months after she ran off, I had to read that in the paper.
Still, on the plus, I kept my 2 beautiful cats and it left me free to be with my beautiful Philippina Mahal.
Luckily, after bleeding me dry, I never hear from her, not a peep. (although 6ft deep under the hedge is a nice quiet place )