What blessings....?Originally Posted by filipina_owl
But they will tease me that im too tight and that i should share my blessings... They think life in the uk is very easy...
Just tell them straight and to the point that you married your husband for love, and not to keep them in luxuries.
You are having a baby, have no job, you don't want to put your husband in a spot.... this is all pressure that you don't need.
When baby is old enough, and you get a job, you "may" be able to contribute a little, but they have to understand that your small family comes first.
Obviously in case of a real emergency, I don't see a reason for not helping.
