Good for you for having good principles for being a wife. But if you are also a filipina wife who is desperately want to send money and thinking how hard is to live in Pinas, I can still understand her if she wants to help her family as that's in our culture to help them.But if you will help member of family who is lazy and can't move their ass to find work or lazy to study, that is completely no hope for me to understand.
Maybe I am just lucky enough as I don't need to help sisters and brothers as their house is far better than mine and they always tell me to save even single penny so that in the future, we have our own beatiful house and business. But of course I have my soft heart to my nephew whom I paid his full year service bus as a promise for being scholar and belong to top 5 in his class. I do help my nieces if they can promise me that they will pass their board exam, I will pay their IELTS, send them gifts if they can prove me they are doing good in their class. That's all I can help with them. I help and send money to my Nanay but most of the time, she gives more than I could give to her.
