oh dear cathy,its hard if you dont got work here...if you wanted something
and your hubbys dont got much money...and all the family asking you for some help.that is the trouble.because they all expect you are here in uk you are rich
they doesnt realized how hard life here..everythings expensive...but if you got work and you work fulltime..[you know what i mean]so you got your own money no need to ask your hubby if you can used your own money.because you know you can help your family anytime if you want too. yes?so good luck ...the best i can advise you tell theme your not working yet,
so you can give theme...tell your family your husband not rich...![]()