a very intresting surprice situation...didnt see it coming...

[maria_and_matt]

maybe he thinks he is doing the right thing, but for me i think that you should stay together, as you said you are willing to work to help him out with the debts. and if ever you go back home, dont think that he has dumped you, maybe he is just doing this to protect you. talk to him, tell him of your fears, let him understand. i hope that you can both stay together, in sickness and in health, in richer or for poorer, right? goodluck to you.

[allyn]

maybe he thinks he is doing the right thing, but for me i think that you should stay together, as you said you are willing to work to help him out with the debts. and if ever you go back home, dont think that he has dumped you, maybe he is just doing this to protect you. talk to him, tell him of your fears, let him understand. i hope that you can both stay together, in sickness and in health, in richer or for poorer, right? goodluck to you.

hello!!!
thanks for the reply to my post...
i understand , you have a point but i have tried to explain things to him but he have made up his mind...i understand my husband reason, i know he just want me to be in a safe place he know i can be..
i also told him im scared to loose him...
but he already made up his mind, he think its the only way...
but going back int he philippines means giving him up, and my job and starting from nothing again....

just dont know what to do next...

at the moment im just brasing my self on what going to happend tomoro or the next day...

[Fitzy]

hello!!!
thanks for the reply to my post...
i understand , you have a point but i have tried to explain things to him but he have made up his mind...i understand my husband reason, i know he just want me to be in a safe place he know i can be..
i also told him im scared to loose him...
but he already made up his mind, he think its the only way...
but going back int he philippines means giving him up, and my job and starting from nothing again....

just dont know what to do next...

at the moment im just brasing my self on what going to happend tomoro or the next day...

I know this is a very painful time for you here my dear.
DON'T let him send you back, because he does not have the right!!
Trust me on this!!
You say you are Married?
Sorry to ask, but how long have you been married??? Do you have your ILR?

Go ASAP to your Citizens Advice, and ask them to help you.

Don't let the **** dump you like an unwanted pet.

I have very powerful friends in Immigration, and trust me!! He can't do this to you.


PM me please ASAP.

I can ask them for advice if necessary?


Do not let him bully you.

Hearing this saddens me much, and angers me


God bless, and be strong.