Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
maybe he thinks he is doing the right thing, but for me i think that you should stay together, as you said you are willing to work to help him out with the debts. and if ever you go back home, dont think that he has dumped you, maybe he is just doing this to protect you. talk to him, tell him of your fears, let him understand. i hope that you can both stay together, in sickness and in health, in richer or for poorer, right? goodluck to you.
hello!!!
thanks for the reply to my post...
i understand , you have a point but i have tried to explain things to him but he have made up his mind...i understand my husband reason, i know he just want me to be in a safe place he know i can be..
i also told him im scared to loose him...
but he already made up his mind, he think its the only way...
but going back int he philippines means giving him up, and my job and starting from nothing again....

just dont know what to do next...

at the moment im just brasing my self on what going to happend tomoro or the next day...