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    Quote Originally Posted by Peanutz View Post
    I understand that Joe...but in exceptional ciscumstances... laws doesn't mirror the reality of our lives...
    Actually, working at the Airport, I would normally agree with Joe, but in this case, I agree totally with you Peanutz.
    On face value of course, from what Allyn says.
    Seems like Hubby is acting kinda childish to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fitzy View Post
    Actually, working at the Airport, I would normally agree with Joe, but in this case, I agree totally with you Peanutz.
    On face value of course, from what Allyn says.
    Seems like Hubby is acting kinda childish to me.
    Allyn's situation makes me really think...

    In this circumstances a foreigner husband/wife actually doesn't have a right?


    So if a UK national has decided that his/her wife is not good enough then she/he can dump her/him back wherever she came from?

    Where's our rights in here? Where do we stand? Is this the system we are living in? Is this the system where my money goes?


    'We dance in a circle and suppose, while the secret sits in the middle and knows'

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    Oh help me God if this happened to me...
    My husband has no idea what he got in to marrying ME!

    I will not deviate the real focus in here...It's not about me...

    Allyn's situation is really something to give a thought...Although it is not the best solution to get her husband convince to help her get her ILR before he dump her...I dread to think of the other option...




    'We dance in a circle and suppose, while the secret sits in the middle and knows'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peanutz View Post
    My husband has no idea what he got in to marrying ME!
    you can't be worse than my wife




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    No need to worry about asking the hubby's help for ILR as she already has

    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=18527

    I just hope that she would for once stand up for herself and say "enough" because it looks like her hubby is not gonna do it for her.
    Say to him "NO i'm not going back to Philippines, if you dont want to keep me i'll look after myself"



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    Quote Originally Posted by Tonet View Post
    No need to worry about asking the hubby's help for ILR as she already has

    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=18527

    I just hope that she would for once stand up for herself and say "enough" because it looks like her hubby is not gonna do it for her.
    Say to him "NO i'm not going back to Philippines, if you dont want to keep me i'll look after myself"
    well spotted Tonet

    then what allyn does is up to her now


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tonet View Post
    No need to worry about asking the hubby's help for ILR as she already has

    http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=18527

    I just hope that she would for once stand up for herself and say "enough" because it looks like her hubby is not gonna do it for her.
    Say to him "NO i'm not going back to Philippines, if you dont want to keep me i'll look after myself"
    Oh Tonet! That makes her situation easier...and I can go to sleep now...
    Whew...I was a little bit worried there...

    She needs to think for herself now...ALLYN! You have lots of work to do...get yourself ready cause it will not be a joy ride.


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    you can't be worse than my wife


    Hahahah!


    'We dance in a circle and suppose, while the secret sits in the middle and knows'

    R.F.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Peanutz View Post
    Allyn's situation makes me really think...

    In this circumstances a foreigner husband/wife actually doesn't have a right?


    So if a UK national has decided that his/her wife is not good enough then she/he can dump her/him back wherever she came from?

    Where's our rights in here? Where do we stand? Is this the system we are living in? Is this the system where my money goes?
    your husband is your sponsor, and effectively he's withdrawing his support if he says the marriage is over and will not sign her ilr app.

    that's why the wife should apply for ilr asap, to protect herself and her rights to remain in the UK, many if not all have left their home they grew up in,to come and make a new start in the UK and now the UK is their home.

    if she had a child that could help her case..

    2 yrs on a spouse visa you can apply for ilr, but those married to a European in the uk you need to be married at least 3yrs and at least the final year you needed to have lived in the uk, and you need help from your ex (which many refuse to do) if you want to stay in the uk should your marriage break up.


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    [QUOTE=joebloggs;202746]your husband is your sponsor, and effectively he's withdrawing his support if he says the marriage is over and will not sign her ilr app.

    You know what...this rule or whatever you call it is actually depriving a person of any rights. Just because a sponsor whether it's husband or wife has decided that his/her wife/husband is not good enough then he/she can withdraw the sponsorship leaving the person on his/her own fate.

    I'm afraid to say but all I can think of now is...this is an unequal treatment.



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    [QUOTE=Peanutz;202749]
    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    your husband is your sponsor, and effectively he's withdrawing his support if he says the marriage is over and will not sign her ilr app.

    You know what...this rule or whatever you call it is actually depriving a person of any rights. Just because a sponsor whether it's husband or wife has decided that his/her wife/husband is not good enough then he/she can withdraw the sponsorship leaving the person on his/her own fate.

    I'm afraid to say but all I can think of now is...this is an unequal treatment.

    you might mean article 8, human rights, but the HO can say there is nothing to stop her living back in the phils


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    [QUOTE=joebloggs;202753]
    Quote Originally Posted by Peanutz View Post

    you might mean article 8, human rights, but the HO can say there is nothing to stop her living back in the phils
    but that dont matter now. allyn has ilr


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    [QUOTE=joebloggs;202753]
    Quote Originally Posted by Peanutz View Post

    you might mean article 8, human rights, but the HO can say there is nothing to stop her living back in the phils

    I guess...but do you think this is morally acceptable? We all know why people from poor countries migrates in western countries...Do they actually look at the person as a human being that desires to have a better future?

    I guess it's better to drop my political views here...as there is no win win situation when it comes in to this kind of topic.


    'We dance in a circle and suppose, while the secret sits in the middle and knows'

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