Quote Originally Posted by Sim11UK View Post
Once you start giving, it becomes impossible to stop, which in turn becomes a vicious circle, as you now struggle, to afford a trip out there.

You don't owe anybody anything, at least until you have met.
wise words there

though i've been there and done the same thing, and like i said b4, we've been married more than 7yrs...


so ask for receipts and go and see her asap, that way you'll have a better idea Alan where you really stand.