Alan this is quite troubling to read?Originally Posted by jackson.alan46
Sorry Joe, I had just replied to your earlier post. The 4,000 php is every month, the 10,000 is for the venue, "dress/toga" (the words she used), and "other graduation needs" ; over and above food (4000php), travelling, apartment rent(5000php), water, electricity, internet access, of about 18000php. As I said, that might not be outrageous for a romantic relationship in the UK, but for someone I have yet to meet ...
You've sort of got yourself into a mess, you should never have got into.
I'm not sure of some of the above figures, travelling electricity etc.? Do you mean every month???
Once you start giving, it becomes impossible to stop, which in turn becomes a vicious circle, as you now struggle, to afford a trip out there.
You don't owe anybody anything, at least until you have met.
