HopeUK I'm sorry things haven't worked out...can't remember, are you in Manila?
Take a flight to Bohol (panglao island) or Boracay, such a shame to come straight home. Really, you could have a great time...There is so much to explore.
Don't let this unfortunate incident, ruin your enjoyment of the Philippines.
Come on folks! give him some more help & encouragement.